Ask Esther

Yesterday at Saltwater Farm, JC & I met a bunch of great, newly engaged couples who have either booked or are considering booking (DO IT!) their weddings at the vineyard. I had some really nice conversations with the couples and even some parents about our experience and their visions for their own dream weddings. It made me remember just how overwhelming the whole planning process can be. JC & I planned every last detail by ourselves...searching online through hundreds of potential venues and then visiting over a dozen, many of which we realized in seconds were not right for us (but still drove 2 hours to see); spending hours on the phone with potential vendors, before scheduling face-to-face meetings with each of them...photographers, caterers, florists, justices-of-the-peace, and on and on........

We would have given our right arms (the left needs to sparkle with the ring J) for some advice or recommendations as to where we could start. Once we had agreed to work with some of our vendors, we were able to ask them for advice and it made the process so much easier. If you've followed our blog, you know that we hired DJ Doug from Power Posse Productions without even talking to him, let alone hearing/seeing his work!

I gave my email address and phone number to a bunch of couples because I am honestly more than happy to share our experience, offer inside info, and give recommendations for our awesome vendors. I mean, I spent a year researching and learning all about wedding planning and getting to know vendors in New England so it would be a shame to have all that new knowledge go to waste now! I understand why so many wedding planners get their start after their own weddings ;)

So if you've come across our blog in your search for some of the vendors we used, please feel free to contact me about our experience or ask any questions you like...the more random the better! For now, I'll tell you that we chose to work with each of our vendors because they were the most fun, the most flexible, the most creative, the easiest to work with, and the most excited about our vision. Tall order, if you ask me!

Venue: Saltwater Farm Vineyard - owners, Merrily & Michael Connery

Caterer: Gourmet Galley - owner & event planner, Anna Lathrop

Photographers: Justin Marantz Photography - owners & photographers, Justin & Mary Marantz

Videographer: Stillmotion - cinematographer, Patrick Moreau

Florist: It's So Ranunculus - owner & florist, Leah Miner

DJ: Power Posse Productions - owner & DJ, Doug Jastremski

Hair: Platinum of Norwich - stylist, Bobbie Camp

Makeup: Jennie Fresa Beauty Libray - owner & makeup artist, Jennie Fresa

Justice of the Peace: Chaz Zezulka

Best of luck and have fun!

Bride: Esther Tetreault

esthermary11@comcast.net

Cheese & Flowers & Birthday Cake

More quality time in the car today...

Today is my mom's bday (Happy Birthday Mom!) so we decided to multitask and get a little wedding planning accomplished while we were in CT.

We planned to meet w/ Leah, our florist, today for a fun little mockup in Marlborough, CT. Since the stars always seem to be in alignment for JC & I, we had the opportunity to visit nearby Cato Corner Farm for a cheese tasting. Anna, our caterer, recommended Cato Corner for great local cheeses to serve at our cocktail hour. They are a small farm in Colchester, CT with only 40 cows yet they service some of the top restaurants in the country including Daniel, Tocqueville, and Per Se in NYC. (Per Se is owned by Thomas Keller...owner of the ever-impressive The French Laundry in Napa, CA at which we had the luxury of dining this past fall.)

Needless to say, the cheese was amazing. We tasted some young and aged varieties and the complexities and depth of flavor are distinct in the aged cheeses. Delicious. I can pretty much guarantee you'll enjoy!

Next it was on to a couple hours of flowers, and vases, and curly willow...oh my! Leah is so helpful and SO PATIENT when it comes to JC & I. First of all, I have absolutely zero creative vision so, unless you're showing me a full arrangement of florals, I have no idea what you're talking about. Second of all, JC has lots of opinions and ideas so he doesn't do the typical "glazed-over" man thing that florists usually see. End of story, we're a handful. Add in my sister Heidi, MOH, who came along for the ride (and cheese)...Leah had her work cut out for her today. We reviewed the various vessel options, corsages, bouquets, colors, etc. So much detail, but visualizing some of the arrangements and discussing our options gives us more and more confidence that Leah will do a fantastic job for our wedding.


We finished the day at Mohegan Sun, for mom's birthday dinner at Todd English's Tuscany. A little wine, some tasty flatbreads, and fallen chocolate cake w/ my fam made for a relaxing end to a busy day. Then it was back in the car for more quality time...

We have our Florist

I have to say that wedding flowers is the one area JC & I had absolutely no idea how to budget for. How much do flowers cost? Who knows?? Apparently they can cost A LOT.

JC & I have some grand ideas about what we'd like to display at the wedding to keep with the "natural" theme we have going. We'd like to do some cool arrangements using grasses, herbs, and foliage but we also plan to have some beautiful bright flowers as well. JC has transplanted about 30 pg hydrangeas from his little garden plot in the city to his parents' house, so we're going to use lots of these big gorgeous blooms.

We really only interviewed 2 florists in CT: one is pretty well known in Mystic and does lots of events all over the state; the other was referred to us by my cousin Marsha (making her 2nd appearance in this blog!). When we got their proposals, I honestly wouldn't have been surprised if they were $1000 or $10000. Fortunately they weren't $10k, but they were more than we wanted to spend on flowers when there are other priorities (like food!) to focus on.

We decided to work with Leah, Marsha's referral, from It's So Ranunculus in Marlborough, CT. She was so cute and fun and excited about our ideas when we met w/ her. She's also very willing to work w/ any budget and is planning a "mock design" consultation for us because I have absolutely NO creative vision! I'm excited to watch her play w/ flowers and foliage to see what our arrangements are going to look like. Watch for more posts with pictures soon!